Firstly the bottu issue. The best of English education is available in Christian schools where bottu is banned. People prefer to give up bottu instead of English as there is future and high quality life only with English education.
How does the color of the bottu matter? The color code is just an indication which does not really matter. Moreover why should we allow such indications? Many a times it leads to problems.
Bangles and flowers are mere decorative items. There is no need for so much ado about it. Are Hindu men allowed to cut their hair according to our shasthras? Why are Men always finding fault with women and Controlling them? Why are women stupid and timid not to raise the same issues about Men? Why can't we reform together?
Why do morals apply only to women? Does it mean Men have no morals? It is pretty sure that God is the ultimate biased of all. That is why He created us in such a way that when two persons commit the act only the women has to bear the brunt of it. That doesn't mean Men should go Scot free. The responsible leaders of the society must punish the Man also. Men need to be educated that they too have morals.
All Indians (Hindusthanis) are only Hindus. Unfortunately many of them have been misled and converted into other religions in the name of equal status. The extreme bias towards lower castes on the ruthless injustice has led them to such conversions. Yet we as Hindus are not ready to give up casteism. Not only Hindus women from other religions are also abandoning these so called religious symbols which are actually impositions of Male Chauvinists for their own mean intentions. Women have been compelled to follow some unexplained rules and subdued in the name of religion. If there are rules let them be for both genders. God has given life to both genders. Please let each one live with their own freedom and preferences. At least make these symbols as tokens of revere so that women may give it a thought.